Everything that You Need to Know About Anal Play
If you are a newbie to anal play or anal sex, you may be confused as to where you would start, or how it even goes.
It may seem so easy online, but when you think about it it requires some preparation and items to make sure that it is done cleanly and safely.
Thankfully, it isn’t actually as complicated as it may seem.
To help you learn about anal play and anal sex, here is a quick guide on everything that you need to know.
Be Sure that You Want It.
One of the most important things that you need, for yourself and your partner, for any sexual activity is consent.
You need to be sure that you and your partner are fully okay and want anal play and sex before you try.
Not only is it the morally correct thing to do, but if you force anal play and sex it can be quite painful.
That’s why it is important to make sure that you both want it, that way it will be all pleasure and enjoyment.
The thing about anal play and sex is that it usually requires some items before being able to do it, unlike other kinds of traditional sex such as vaginal preparation.
One of the most important things that you need to have on hand is a lot of lube. It is important to never skip the lube or put too little, because you can cause damage to the inner lining of the anus, causing painful microabrasions that can create gross infections.
Moreover, make sure that you are getting the right kind of lubricant, because some lubricants will not work with some condoms or toys.
Additionally, you will make sure you have everything else you need. You will want to have condoms on hand, especially if you are planning to have anal sex.
It is important to stay sanitary, because a lot of bacteria is inside the anus, so a penis can get an infection.
Having some wet wipes, alcohol, and towels next to the bed will also be helpful, that way you can clean your hands if they have been in the anus and lay down a towel in case an accident happens.
The Cleaning Process.
Now, a lot of people that it is not completely necessary to give your anus a deep cleanse before anal sex or play.
Many people agree that going to the toilet naturally around three to four hours before it begins and taking a good shower ought to do the trick.
However, if you and your partner would feel more comfortable, you can try slipping a finger in your anus while you shower to wash it gently with warm water and a mild soap.
You could also try using an enema to clean it more thoroughly. However, be sure to use this method sparingly, because it can damage the lining of your anus in the long run if it is done too frequently.
Be sure to fill the enema with lukewarm water and a mild, unscented soap and rinse it off well, do not add harsh fragrances or chemicals into your enema. It’s not needed to clean.
Here comes the interesting part, because there are so many toys that you can choose from. One of the most popular toys that you can choose from are butt plugs, which are small little toys that resemble tiny dildos.
These are meant to be insert and left in the rectum to stimulate the nerve endings of the anus.
This is an effective way to prepare yourself for anal sex, because it will relax your anal muscles and get you more turned on, which will make anal sex much more enjoyable and make the dildo or penis easier to penetrate.
Anal beads are beads on a flexible stick, it is used to enhance your orgasm by pulling it out rapidly or slowly when you are climaxing.
These will probably not help you prepare for anal sex, but it will help get you more turned on. You can get a set of beads to increase the sizes to make things much more exciting.
The Actual Penetration.
Now the time has come to penetrate the anus with something larger. If you will be inserting a penis in there, you need to make sure that you are a wearing a condom to prevent a sexually transmitted disease and wear lots of lube to let it slip in easily.
Remember, it is always better to be safe than sorry, so it is best to not skip out on the condoms and lube. You can lay down a towel like mentioned earlier to prevent any accidents.
When using toys and start penetration, remember to always be slow.
You don’t want to tear or cause the person actual pain, because that is not enjoyable and can cause cuts. Take it slow and enjoy yourself.
Anal play may seem a bit daunting and overwhelming at first, but don’t worry.
Once you have everything that you need, it will be worth the effort once you’re in the mood.